My Mother In Law Calls My Husband 10 Times A Day

My Mother In Law Calls My Husband 10 Times A Day

My mother in law calls my husband 10 times a day. My toxic mother in law was cut out of lives for 12 blissful peaceful months she would randomly call at odd times to get my husband to answer because he thought something was wrong. My mother in law s second husband passed away about 5 years ago. My wife is too close to her mom who is always chiming in. When my husband is around she s great but when my husband has to be away on business it s like i don t exist.

He s not real good about calling so i am usually the one initiating the calls moreover he is getting old and i am worried about his health. I am a woman in my 50s looking for advice on how to cope with my needy and manipulative mother who is in her 80s. He sent her a three word text a month ago for mother s day and she has been relentlessly worming her way back in since. Tie me to a post and flog me if i ever get up in my daughter in law s lacy thongs without asking her first.

But there is also such a thing as period underwear. Physically she is in really good shape. Then my mother and sister passed within a year of each other and we sold our house and moved in with my mother in law. She ll call to ask whatchya doin ask what everyone else is doing and hang up.

Fold my daughter in law s laundry without her permission. My aunt felt guilty from my grandma s constant complaints and took her home. A loving relationship can be an oasis in uncertain times but nurturing it requires attention honesty openness vulnerability and gratitude. I also call my mother in law twice or thrice a week.

Buy my daughter in law clothes only i would wear. She says they talk three or four times a week. My mil is constantly calling my husband. There is something sweet and generous about helping without being asked.

She calls for no reason and if she has a reason it s not a good one to call for. She is active has a good social life. She calls me every day she says. Even if my aunt just left her house.

We live in different countries and we meet each other only once in a year. I call my mother everyday and dad twice a week. As much as i tell my wife to not fill her mother in on every aspect of our life she always tells me to my face that she will keep her mother out of it but within the hour my mother in law is calling and offering her opinion on things. One colleague i speak to has just come off the phone to her mother at 10am.

She ll do it sometimes more than 3 times a day.